So it's Groundhog Day, and you know what that means? One of you is doomed to repeat it over and over until you get your act together!! So don't waste time and, you know, get it together!
In all seriousness, I really would not want to repeat this day over and over. It wasn't a particularly bad day or anything, just ready to move on to the next.
I know all marrieds out there will tell me "told you so" or "I could have told you that," but you think you'll have more time to do things once you get married but you don't. All that planning for the wedding has to pay off for relaxation, right? haha, nope. Now you work to support yourself. Then again, I know people who do that and aren't married. But for me and my wife Carissa, we both lived at home with our folks until we got married. Not necessarily by choice, but we had no other options financially. Then once we got engaged we found the jobs we needed to get things rolling.
I know, what does this have to do with my particular style of blog? (told you I made no promises this wouldn't be an update on the day or life.)
Well, not that I mind, because being married is great and I wouldn't trade it for anything; but with all the new extra things we have to do, like keeping the house clean, paying the bills, going to work to get the money to pay the bills to keep the apartment clean........"in the house that Jack built." oh wait, wrong story.
But I find I do not have a lot of time to write. Moreover, when I get home I'm too tired to write, and then we have other things that come up. I suppose that's why I have this blog, and why I gave myself an every day update til March at least, to get in the habit of doing it every day. With the little time I do have, i can write a paragraph or two, or if I'm lucky a page while at work during breaks, or get home and research for 10 minutes to write the next day, then get on here and update whatever I can.
Then once it's become habitual, it wont be so hard when the time is even shorter. So I'll write today, and then tomorrow and then tomorrow. Or if I am to believe the movie, I'll write today...and then I'll write today...and then I'll write today. Let's just hope it's not the same line over and over again.
I hope the above stuff didn't sound depressing because it wasn't meant to be. I was merely stating the facts, but then adding my solutions. So please don't get me wrong. I love every minute I spent with my wife. And in honor of the upcoming Valentines Day in a week or so; I Love you Carissa!
A bit of a sentimental update too, but I can afford to be. It don't cost me nothing. Til tomorrow folks.
or...til today.
-Spoiled Mangoes
No comments:
Post a Comment